WHAT DO I DO!?!!?

ok so basicaly... i just broke up with this guy.. he was kind of my first real love.. but he lived far away.. and he said it hurt him too much to be away from me and only see me once in a while... and i'm still in love with him.. like SO in love with him. i'm not a girl who falls easily, i'm really indapendant and usualy i can just shrug it off but i cant shrug this off.. all i can think about is him... and i'm going to see him A LOT over the summer and he still doesn't want me back because he thinks that it'll hurt too mcuh to say goodbye again in september... and i'm kind of with someone right now.. who i do like.. hes such a sweet guy but i can't forget my ex WHAT DO I DO!?!!?

You're never going to fully be able to forget about your ex. It will just be one of those things that will fade away with time. You can't help but think about him, but maybe to get over him you have to try to limit yourself to only talking to him online and such every once in a while, just to dim things down. Get rid of things that bring up painful memories, and I think it might hurt you to see him during the summer too. Just try to stop loving him and things will get a little better. From there, you know already he lives too far away. You will always know who you want to be with forever, right now it's him. You won't be able to picture yourself with anyone else and that's all you can think about. But truly, if he wants the same thing later, you two will find each other again. Even if you think you don't love him anymore, there's always a part of you that will love him. You just have to find someone to get your mind off him.