i approached a guy that keeps smiling at me assuming he likes me. i mean he was literally smiling from ear to ear but when i gave him my phone number he called me saying he was taken. did i see what i wanted to see or was it just a mind game for him?
I believe you saw what he wants.He may like you, but perhaps he's too commited to his partner to split it off for a girl he barely knows. If you really like the guy, try getting to know him more and see what happens. If not, keep him as a close friend. I wish you luck!
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
WHAT DO I DO!?!!?
ok so basicaly... i just broke up with this guy.. he was kind of my first real love.. but he lived far away.. and he said it hurt him too much to be away from me and only see me once in a while... and i'm still in love with him.. like SO in love with him. i'm not a girl who falls easily, i'm really indapendant and usualy i can just shrug it off but i cant shrug this off.. all i can think about is him... and i'm going to see him A LOT over the summer and he still doesn't want me back because he thinks that it'll hurt too mcuh to say goodbye again in september... and i'm kind of with someone right now.. who i do like.. hes such a sweet guy but i can't forget my ex WHAT DO I DO!?!!?
You're never going to fully be able to forget about your ex. It will just be one of those things that will fade away with time. You can't help but think about him, but maybe to get over him you have to try to limit yourself to only talking to him online and such every once in a while, just to dim things down. Get rid of things that bring up painful memories, and I think it might hurt you to see him during the summer too. Just try to stop loving him and things will get a little better. From there, you know already he lives too far away. You will always know who you want to be with forever, right now it's him. You won't be able to picture yourself with anyone else and that's all you can think about. But truly, if he wants the same thing later, you two will find each other again. Even if you think you don't love him anymore, there's always a part of you that will love him. You just have to find someone to get your mind off him.
You're never going to fully be able to forget about your ex. It will just be one of those things that will fade away with time. You can't help but think about him, but maybe to get over him you have to try to limit yourself to only talking to him online and such every once in a while, just to dim things down. Get rid of things that bring up painful memories, and I think it might hurt you to see him during the summer too. Just try to stop loving him and things will get a little better. From there, you know already he lives too far away. You will always know who you want to be with forever, right now it's him. You won't be able to picture yourself with anyone else and that's all you can think about. But truly, if he wants the same thing later, you two will find each other again. Even if you think you don't love him anymore, there's always a part of you that will love him. You just have to find someone to get your mind off him.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
How can a 13 year old girl earn extra money?
Well, as many people have mentioned, babysitting is one of the greatest way for someone your age to earn money. Although, if you wait until you're fourteen, and if your parents agree, you may get a job. If you wouldn't like to wait, try offering to cut other people's grass, and in the fall rake their leaves, in the winter shovel snow, etc. You just need to make yourself known. You could even put up posters saying, "Thirteen year old girl doing housework for paying customers." That way, the labour isn't too hard, and you still get money for it.
How do you recommend me to persude my parents to give me allowance?
What I did, was told my parents about all the positives about having an allowance. If they still say no, ask if you can do extra chores around the house for money. Earn extra by doing something like cleaning out the garage or the back shed. Just remember one thing though, an allowance is a priviledge, and if you don't do your chores, you don't get your money. Try making a chore list to help you remember what chores to do on which days.
Is this wrong???
ok all my life ive never been loved(14 years) even my mom (dad's gone...not dead but gone) never cared really and now i found a girl that loves me, cuddles with me, kisses me, cares for me but she has a bf and he gets mad cause i do it...she loves both of us and i wanna keep that cause ive never had it and her bf keeps threatenin me but i dont really care i love her with my life is this wrong??!?!?!
Nothing is wrong with that. It's love. The wrong part about it is that she's cheating on her boyfriend. You need to confront her about it and tell her how you feel, but you need to let her know that what she's doing to the both of you is wrong. She needs to understand that. You need to tell her that it would be perfectly find as long as she didn't have a boyfriend, but she does. If you really love her that much, ask her out and see who she picks. If she loves her boyfriend more than you (which I would assume is correct given the situation) then you need to stop flirting with her. You need to wait until her and her boyfriend break up. Once you get the chance after they're over, make a move and fast. If she gives you the "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" speech, prove to her that she is.
Nothing is wrong with that. It's love. The wrong part about it is that she's cheating on her boyfriend. You need to confront her about it and tell her how you feel, but you need to let her know that what she's doing to the both of you is wrong. She needs to understand that. You need to tell her that it would be perfectly find as long as she didn't have a boyfriend, but she does. If you really love her that much, ask her out and see who she picks. If she loves her boyfriend more than you (which I would assume is correct given the situation) then you need to stop flirting with her. You need to wait until her and her boyfriend break up. Once you get the chance after they're over, make a move and fast. If she gives you the "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" speech, prove to her that she is.
Plz help me!! this is urgent!!! O_o?
ok... he's my prob.. I REALLY REALLY like my guy friend ok? and i told him on MSN i loved him....ok? then... i asked him if he minded and he said no but if i tried any SH!T on him he'd hate me... anyhoo... we hav a disco next term sometime and i REALLY wanna make a move but... i dunno wat 2 do...... coz.. my friend ( guy) likes this girl ( who's also my friend) and he said 2 dare her 2 kiss him ok? and she said she'd do it if i held this guy's ( the guy i like... not the friend) ..... hands... and i'm really nervous around guys and i'm scared i'll ruin our frienship.... ... i kinda wanna kiss him 2...... PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!! .....
What needs to happen, is you should talk to him. Obviously he doesn't like you that way, if you pulled something like that he wouldn't like it. I would stay away until he realizes he does like you, therefore, ask your other guy friend if you can hold someone else's hands. If that's okay with the guy you like, then by all means, go and hold his hands. Just don't kiss him, he asked you not to and technically that's sexual harassment because he asked you not to.
What needs to happen, is you should talk to him. Obviously he doesn't like you that way, if you pulled something like that he wouldn't like it. I would stay away until he realizes he does like you, therefore, ask your other guy friend if you can hold someone else's hands. If that's okay with the guy you like, then by all means, go and hold his hands. Just don't kiss him, he asked you not to and technically that's sexual harassment because he asked you not to.
Help me out?
have a major crush on this girl I know from work. She is very much my type, and I'm itching to ask her out. Anyway, I have spoken to her a couple of times and helped her with stuff and just tried to be courteous and behave like a gentleman around her. Several things are bothering me about her: A. I always have to start the conversation. B. She hardly ever acknowledges my presence. (Do A. and B. both indicate she's not interested in me, or is she just shy and/or confused because she isn't experienced in courtship?)C. A mutual co-worker of ours keeps interrupting me because she's friends with her. D. I just met her earlier this month. (Am I rushing it?)E. I am not acting completely like myself in her presence. I don't always flash my whole personality in her company, which bothers me, because I'm usually pretty friendly and let people know who I am right away. Why is this.F. I am really clueless as to how to behave like myself around girls that I want to date
Usually, when I first fall for a guy, I try to avoid him. I'm usually very clumsy and try not to make a conversation because there's a reason I'm not supposed to like him. Perhaps she likes you, but doesn't want to admit it to herself. Ask her if she would like to go for a walk, so that her friend won't interrupt the both of you. The emotional stage of love is exactly what you explained. You are just shy and don't really know what you should be showing off in terms of your personality. Try asking her out, it seems like she doesn't totally hate you, if she's a good person, she'll give you a chance and get to know you over dinner and there, it may take a while, but she will get to see your true personality.
Usually, when I first fall for a guy, I try to avoid him. I'm usually very clumsy and try not to make a conversation because there's a reason I'm not supposed to like him. Perhaps she likes you, but doesn't want to admit it to herself. Ask her if she would like to go for a walk, so that her friend won't interrupt the both of you. The emotional stage of love is exactly what you explained. You are just shy and don't really know what you should be showing off in terms of your personality. Try asking her out, it seems like she doesn't totally hate you, if she's a good person, she'll give you a chance and get to know you over dinner and there, it may take a while, but she will get to see your true personality.
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