i approached a guy that keeps smiling at me assuming he likes me. i mean he was literally smiling from ear to ear but when i gave him my phone number he called me saying he was taken. did i see what i wanted to see or was it just a mind game for him?
I believe you saw what he wants.He may like you, but perhaps he's too commited to his partner to split it off for a girl he barely knows. If you really like the guy, try getting to know him more and see what happens. If not, keep him as a close friend. I wish you luck!
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
WHAT DO I DO!?!!?
ok so basicaly... i just broke up with this guy.. he was kind of my first real love.. but he lived far away.. and he said it hurt him too much to be away from me and only see me once in a while... and i'm still in love with him.. like SO in love with him. i'm not a girl who falls easily, i'm really indapendant and usualy i can just shrug it off but i cant shrug this off.. all i can think about is him... and i'm going to see him A LOT over the summer and he still doesn't want me back because he thinks that it'll hurt too mcuh to say goodbye again in september... and i'm kind of with someone right now.. who i do like.. hes such a sweet guy but i can't forget my ex WHAT DO I DO!?!!?
You're never going to fully be able to forget about your ex. It will just be one of those things that will fade away with time. You can't help but think about him, but maybe to get over him you have to try to limit yourself to only talking to him online and such every once in a while, just to dim things down. Get rid of things that bring up painful memories, and I think it might hurt you to see him during the summer too. Just try to stop loving him and things will get a little better. From there, you know already he lives too far away. You will always know who you want to be with forever, right now it's him. You won't be able to picture yourself with anyone else and that's all you can think about. But truly, if he wants the same thing later, you two will find each other again. Even if you think you don't love him anymore, there's always a part of you that will love him. You just have to find someone to get your mind off him.
You're never going to fully be able to forget about your ex. It will just be one of those things that will fade away with time. You can't help but think about him, but maybe to get over him you have to try to limit yourself to only talking to him online and such every once in a while, just to dim things down. Get rid of things that bring up painful memories, and I think it might hurt you to see him during the summer too. Just try to stop loving him and things will get a little better. From there, you know already he lives too far away. You will always know who you want to be with forever, right now it's him. You won't be able to picture yourself with anyone else and that's all you can think about. But truly, if he wants the same thing later, you two will find each other again. Even if you think you don't love him anymore, there's always a part of you that will love him. You just have to find someone to get your mind off him.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
How can a 13 year old girl earn extra money?
Well, as many people have mentioned, babysitting is one of the greatest way for someone your age to earn money. Although, if you wait until you're fourteen, and if your parents agree, you may get a job. If you wouldn't like to wait, try offering to cut other people's grass, and in the fall rake their leaves, in the winter shovel snow, etc. You just need to make yourself known. You could even put up posters saying, "Thirteen year old girl doing housework for paying customers." That way, the labour isn't too hard, and you still get money for it.
How do you recommend me to persude my parents to give me allowance?
What I did, was told my parents about all the positives about having an allowance. If they still say no, ask if you can do extra chores around the house for money. Earn extra by doing something like cleaning out the garage or the back shed. Just remember one thing though, an allowance is a priviledge, and if you don't do your chores, you don't get your money. Try making a chore list to help you remember what chores to do on which days.
Is this wrong???
ok all my life ive never been loved(14 years) even my mom (dad's gone...not dead but gone) never cared really and now i found a girl that loves me, cuddles with me, kisses me, cares for me but she has a bf and he gets mad cause i do it...she loves both of us and i wanna keep that cause ive never had it and her bf keeps threatenin me but i dont really care i love her with my life is this wrong??!?!?!
Nothing is wrong with that. It's love. The wrong part about it is that she's cheating on her boyfriend. You need to confront her about it and tell her how you feel, but you need to let her know that what she's doing to the both of you is wrong. She needs to understand that. You need to tell her that it would be perfectly find as long as she didn't have a boyfriend, but she does. If you really love her that much, ask her out and see who she picks. If she loves her boyfriend more than you (which I would assume is correct given the situation) then you need to stop flirting with her. You need to wait until her and her boyfriend break up. Once you get the chance after they're over, make a move and fast. If she gives you the "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" speech, prove to her that she is.
Nothing is wrong with that. It's love. The wrong part about it is that she's cheating on her boyfriend. You need to confront her about it and tell her how you feel, but you need to let her know that what she's doing to the both of you is wrong. She needs to understand that. You need to tell her that it would be perfectly find as long as she didn't have a boyfriend, but she does. If you really love her that much, ask her out and see who she picks. If she loves her boyfriend more than you (which I would assume is correct given the situation) then you need to stop flirting with her. You need to wait until her and her boyfriend break up. Once you get the chance after they're over, make a move and fast. If she gives you the "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" speech, prove to her that she is.
Plz help me!! this is urgent!!! O_o?
ok... he's my prob.. I REALLY REALLY like my guy friend ok? and i told him on MSN i loved him....ok? then... i asked him if he minded and he said no but if i tried any SH!T on him he'd hate me... anyhoo... we hav a disco next term sometime and i REALLY wanna make a move but... i dunno wat 2 do...... coz.. my friend ( guy) likes this girl ( who's also my friend) and he said 2 dare her 2 kiss him ok? and she said she'd do it if i held this guy's ( the guy i like... not the friend) ..... hands... and i'm really nervous around guys and i'm scared i'll ruin our frienship.... ... i kinda wanna kiss him 2...... PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!! .....
What needs to happen, is you should talk to him. Obviously he doesn't like you that way, if you pulled something like that he wouldn't like it. I would stay away until he realizes he does like you, therefore, ask your other guy friend if you can hold someone else's hands. If that's okay with the guy you like, then by all means, go and hold his hands. Just don't kiss him, he asked you not to and technically that's sexual harassment because he asked you not to.
What needs to happen, is you should talk to him. Obviously he doesn't like you that way, if you pulled something like that he wouldn't like it. I would stay away until he realizes he does like you, therefore, ask your other guy friend if you can hold someone else's hands. If that's okay with the guy you like, then by all means, go and hold his hands. Just don't kiss him, he asked you not to and technically that's sexual harassment because he asked you not to.
Help me out?
have a major crush on this girl I know from work. She is very much my type, and I'm itching to ask her out. Anyway, I have spoken to her a couple of times and helped her with stuff and just tried to be courteous and behave like a gentleman around her. Several things are bothering me about her: A. I always have to start the conversation. B. She hardly ever acknowledges my presence. (Do A. and B. both indicate she's not interested in me, or is she just shy and/or confused because she isn't experienced in courtship?)C. A mutual co-worker of ours keeps interrupting me because she's friends with her. D. I just met her earlier this month. (Am I rushing it?)E. I am not acting completely like myself in her presence. I don't always flash my whole personality in her company, which bothers me, because I'm usually pretty friendly and let people know who I am right away. Why is this.F. I am really clueless as to how to behave like myself around girls that I want to date
Usually, when I first fall for a guy, I try to avoid him. I'm usually very clumsy and try not to make a conversation because there's a reason I'm not supposed to like him. Perhaps she likes you, but doesn't want to admit it to herself. Ask her if she would like to go for a walk, so that her friend won't interrupt the both of you. The emotional stage of love is exactly what you explained. You are just shy and don't really know what you should be showing off in terms of your personality. Try asking her out, it seems like she doesn't totally hate you, if she's a good person, she'll give you a chance and get to know you over dinner and there, it may take a while, but she will get to see your true personality.
Usually, when I first fall for a guy, I try to avoid him. I'm usually very clumsy and try not to make a conversation because there's a reason I'm not supposed to like him. Perhaps she likes you, but doesn't want to admit it to herself. Ask her if she would like to go for a walk, so that her friend won't interrupt the both of you. The emotional stage of love is exactly what you explained. You are just shy and don't really know what you should be showing off in terms of your personality. Try asking her out, it seems like she doesn't totally hate you, if she's a good person, she'll give you a chance and get to know you over dinner and there, it may take a while, but she will get to see your true personality.
Why am i so jittery?
Everyone tells me that i move around a lot. I cant sit still ever!! what is it??
It depends... perhaps you just have too much adrenaline, or many other things. It could be ADD, ADHD, etc. But if there are no symptoms of it, you may just be used to it and have too much energy that you need to burn off. Most people use this technique while they're eating to burn off the food they eat. For you it may just be that you're not tired enough during the day, try to get yourself more tired so you don't have so much energy. You could try working out first thing in the morning, not drink coffee, anything that reduces your energy level.
It depends... perhaps you just have too much adrenaline, or many other things. It could be ADD, ADHD, etc. But if there are no symptoms of it, you may just be used to it and have too much energy that you need to burn off. Most people use this technique while they're eating to burn off the food they eat. For you it may just be that you're not tired enough during the day, try to get yourself more tired so you don't have so much energy. You could try working out first thing in the morning, not drink coffee, anything that reduces your energy level.
What the hell is wrong with 11/12 year olds dating?
personally think people who are older underestimate 11/12 year olds. We are basically mature enough to go on a simple date. Some people are like 'absoleutly not!' but guess what, I'm maturer than most 14 year olds. I know about sex and know that if the guy goes to far to kick him and say no. It's not like we are asking for sex, drugs, or any other crap. All 11 year olds should have the right to date without people saying 'ABSOLEUTLY NOT, TOO YOUNG'. Are you freaking kidding me? We're not 2 year olds that need diaper changes every other hour. I'm allowed to go to the mall with a friend of mine by myself, it'll be like dating a guy. It's the 21st century people, 11 year olds know better than to have sex (except if they are complete idiots and don't even know what it is, which I doubt is the case). We have dates like everyone else, except we don't take our dates home for the night. Come on people, we are not babies.
you have a very valid point.i had my first boyfriend when i was ten.my mom eventually figured it out, but she's such a cool mom.she didn't get mad or anything, she just let us have our little puppy love fun.when you get older, you realize that you just liked him.by then, usually you fall in love with someone.it's very hard to distinguish that as a kid because you've never had it.that's what other people have a problem with.but i thought it was fun experimenting, i never liked my first three boyfriends, i just thought they were really good friends so i went out with them thinking i liked them. then i actually fell in love with someone and realized that it's more than them being a good friend, it's a whole different emotion.keep experimenting, it's worth it to know the difference.
you have a very valid point.i had my first boyfriend when i was ten.my mom eventually figured it out, but she's such a cool mom.she didn't get mad or anything, she just let us have our little puppy love fun.when you get older, you realize that you just liked him.by then, usually you fall in love with someone.it's very hard to distinguish that as a kid because you've never had it.that's what other people have a problem with.but i thought it was fun experimenting, i never liked my first three boyfriends, i just thought they were really good friends so i went out with them thinking i liked them. then i actually fell in love with someone and realized that it's more than them being a good friend, it's a whole different emotion.keep experimenting, it's worth it to know the difference.
What does having chemistry with someone mean??
having chemistry with someone means that you're in love with them, but it works well and the way you want.you can easily love someone, but sometimes things just don't work.take my friends for example:they fight all the time about things that make no sense because the guy's over protective.the girl doesn't care and flirts with other guys.all the time they think the other one's going to break up with them.that's an example of bad chemistry, they don't work together on the relationship.
Please help me with this boy!!!!!?
mk you guys there is this guy i like. i have literally no idea if he likes me back but i would really like to be with him. should i just tell him that i like him or just not say anything? pros of telling him:i might get a chance with him and find out that he likes me too. cons:i might get rejected, or something else humiliating.what do you think i should do? now im not asking him out just informing him that i like him so maybe he would ask me. but i am really scarred of rejection. please what do you think?
the worst that can happen is you get rejected.just think of yourself as someone with a REALLY big ego.it's not going to damage you, you're the best thing in the world and if you get rejected, you can pull it off without getting humiliated.possible rejection situation with my advice:hey jason.heyi just thought i should tell you that i sort of like you...sorry, but i just don't like you that way.alright, cool.humiliating rejection situation without my advice:hey jasonheyi just thought i should tell you that i sort of like you...i don't like you like that.but i love you!and i don't love you...*goes and cries in bathroom*great situation:hey jasonheyi just thought i should tell you that i sort of like you...really?man, i really like you too, but i was scared to tell you, i didn't think you'd feel the same way.really?yeah, do you want to go out with me?sure!and they all lived happily ever after, the end!
the worst that can happen is you get rejected.just think of yourself as someone with a REALLY big ego.it's not going to damage you, you're the best thing in the world and if you get rejected, you can pull it off without getting humiliated.possible rejection situation with my advice:hey jason.heyi just thought i should tell you that i sort of like you...sorry, but i just don't like you that way.alright, cool.humiliating rejection situation without my advice:hey jasonheyi just thought i should tell you that i sort of like you...i don't like you like that.but i love you!and i don't love you...*goes and cries in bathroom*great situation:hey jasonheyi just thought i should tell you that i sort of like you...really?man, i really like you too, but i was scared to tell you, i didn't think you'd feel the same way.really?yeah, do you want to go out with me?sure!and they all lived happily ever after, the end!
Am I not being supportive?
This guy Im talking to recently had a death in the family. Ive been careful not to get him mad or anything. His cousin twiced removed died whom he was not fond of but his favorite aunt is. She is taking it hard and Im sure that effects him.Lately he has been acting wierd towards me : lashing out at me in anger for no reason then apologizing. He ignores my calls and texts and when I decide to give him space he contacts me. Then he acts as if nothing is wrong.I ask him why he is acting this way and he always seems to rationalize things. Saying his phone mite be picking up and hanging up.Then I feel like the bad guy. Im not asking for much I just want to be there for him, yet I feel he is pushing me away then at the last minute pulling me back.Why does he keep pusing me away then pull me back last minute?I really do care for this guy and I want to be there for him, so how can I deal witht his?
explain to him that you're always there when he needs you and nothing will change that.then let him come to you.don't try to reach out.it's like when you're sitting in a corner crying by yourself.you don't really want to talk to people, you just want to cry it out.just let him cry it out in the corner by himself until he wants help.when he wants it, he'll know he can count on you for it.
explain to him that you're always there when he needs you and nothing will change that.then let him come to you.don't try to reach out.it's like when you're sitting in a corner crying by yourself.you don't really want to talk to people, you just want to cry it out.just let him cry it out in the corner by himself until he wants help.when he wants it, he'll know he can count on you for it.
Make-Up Help!!! Please!!??
go back to school on Thursday and I need help with make-up.I have a ton of make-up. I'm going to list them hereUlta brand eyeshadow in "platinum"Ulta brand eyeshadow in "naked"Cover Girl Eye Enhancers 4-Kit Shadows in "Urban Basics"Cover Girl Perfect Point Plus eye liner in "Espresso"Rimmel eyeliner in "Jet Black"Ulta Brand dual shade eyeliner in "black/flesh"Cover Girl Wetslicks crystals in "Crush"Cover Girl Wet Slicks Fruit Spritzers in "Tangerine Splash"What should I use and do you have any suggestions on new products that I should buy? PLEASE HELP!! I'm going to a new middle school!
1. Once you wake up, brush your teeth and wash your face. Make sure you wash your face with a cleanser. 2. Take a nice warm shower. 3. When you get out of the shower, pat your face dry with a CLEAN towel. Don't rub your face with the towel. That could cause serious damage to your skin. 4.Gently massage in a face moisturizer while your face is a little damp. 5. Apply foundation. The best kind of foundation to use is mineral powder so it won't clog your pores. You can also try other things, but always remember to wash them off by the time you go to bed - breakouts will wreck your look. 6. Apply blush or bronzer to your cheecks to highlight and add dimention. 7. Use a soft-colored eyeshadow for your eyes. You want your makeup to bring out your true beauty. Keep it simple and natural. 8. Curl your lashes with a lash curler. 9. Apply a natural-colored eye liner only if you really need it. Apply it lightly. 10. Apply mascara to your lashes. Use clear, brown or black, depending on your needs, but be careful with black mascara - it can look very stark on some people. 11. If your lips need color, gently blot on a little lipstick. 12. Apply a layer of lip gloss over the lipstick or your natural lips for a little color and shine. If that looks to gaudy on you, just use a moisturizing lip balm. 13. Touch up any areas you missed with your foundation, and blend it well along your jawline. If your face is now a different shade than your neck, brush a little bit of foundation down your neck. Tips: x.Most guys don't like heavy makeup, so keep it x.very simple and clean. x.Keep you eyebrows groomed! x.It is important to look healthy. If have acne, buy a product to get rid of it. Too pale? Get a little sun, but don't overdo it. Warnings:x.Find a face wash that works for your skin type. x.Not every face wash works for everyone. x.You should only wash your face two times a day: in the morning and before you go to bed. If you wash your face too much, your face will get really dried out. x.Keep your hair off of your face whenever you can to avoid making your face oily. x.Avoid touching your face at all, the oil on your fingers will get on your face and make your face very greasy. Always, always, always wash your hands before touching your face. x.Always use a new face cleanser for a few weeks before you decide if it works. Changing your face regimen may result in acne, so don't judge quickly. x.Check your makeup in natural sunlight. Some bad mistakes girls make are too much rouge, globby mascara, dark lipliner, penciled eyebrows or overplucked eybrows, strange-colored eyeshadow or foundaton that is the wrong color - all because it looked fine in their crummy bathroom light. x.If your Mom or big sister wear too much makeup it doesn't mean you have to. The natural look with good skin is so much pretter. Things You'll Need: -Face Wash -Face Moisturizer -Foundation -Blush or Bronzer -Soft-Colored Eyeshadow -Lash Curler -Natural-Colored Eyeliner -Mascara -Lipstick -Lip Gloss or Lip Balm -Makeup Brushes
1. Once you wake up, brush your teeth and wash your face. Make sure you wash your face with a cleanser. 2. Take a nice warm shower. 3. When you get out of the shower, pat your face dry with a CLEAN towel. Don't rub your face with the towel. That could cause serious damage to your skin. 4.Gently massage in a face moisturizer while your face is a little damp. 5. Apply foundation. The best kind of foundation to use is mineral powder so it won't clog your pores. You can also try other things, but always remember to wash them off by the time you go to bed - breakouts will wreck your look. 6. Apply blush or bronzer to your cheecks to highlight and add dimention. 7. Use a soft-colored eyeshadow for your eyes. You want your makeup to bring out your true beauty. Keep it simple and natural. 8. Curl your lashes with a lash curler. 9. Apply a natural-colored eye liner only if you really need it. Apply it lightly. 10. Apply mascara to your lashes. Use clear, brown or black, depending on your needs, but be careful with black mascara - it can look very stark on some people. 11. If your lips need color, gently blot on a little lipstick. 12. Apply a layer of lip gloss over the lipstick or your natural lips for a little color and shine. If that looks to gaudy on you, just use a moisturizing lip balm. 13. Touch up any areas you missed with your foundation, and blend it well along your jawline. If your face is now a different shade than your neck, brush a little bit of foundation down your neck. Tips: x.Most guys don't like heavy makeup, so keep it x.very simple and clean. x.Keep you eyebrows groomed! x.It is important to look healthy. If have acne, buy a product to get rid of it. Too pale? Get a little sun, but don't overdo it. Warnings:x.Find a face wash that works for your skin type. x.Not every face wash works for everyone. x.You should only wash your face two times a day: in the morning and before you go to bed. If you wash your face too much, your face will get really dried out. x.Keep your hair off of your face whenever you can to avoid making your face oily. x.Avoid touching your face at all, the oil on your fingers will get on your face and make your face very greasy. Always, always, always wash your hands before touching your face. x.Always use a new face cleanser for a few weeks before you decide if it works. Changing your face regimen may result in acne, so don't judge quickly. x.Check your makeup in natural sunlight. Some bad mistakes girls make are too much rouge, globby mascara, dark lipliner, penciled eyebrows or overplucked eybrows, strange-colored eyeshadow or foundaton that is the wrong color - all because it looked fine in their crummy bathroom light. x.If your Mom or big sister wear too much makeup it doesn't mean you have to. The natural look with good skin is so much pretter. Things You'll Need: -Face Wash -Face Moisturizer -Foundation -Blush or Bronzer -Soft-Colored Eyeshadow -Lash Curler -Natural-Colored Eyeliner -Mascara -Lipstick -Lip Gloss or Lip Balm -Makeup Brushes
Does this girl like ME? ANYONE PLEASE HELP!!!!?
this girl in my school always trys to talk to me, and likes to get close and push my shoulder and arm. She also held my arm while she bent down. She also laughs at any and everything i do/say. I like her and would like to get closer. But idk if she really likes me. I'm also kinda shy. so what do i do? what does this stuff mean?
she likes you.i know you're shy, but you have to be the bigger person and just come right out and tell her that you like her.that way you'll know for sure if she likes you back because she'll probably tell you if she likes you too.that's the only way you'll know for sure.and the worst that can happen is she figures out you like her.even if she doesn't like you, it'll give her time to get to know you better and like you.but it sounds like she does like you to me. :]
she likes you.i know you're shy, but you have to be the bigger person and just come right out and tell her that you like her.that way you'll know for sure if she likes you back because she'll probably tell you if she likes you too.that's the only way you'll know for sure.and the worst that can happen is she figures out you like her.even if she doesn't like you, it'll give her time to get to know you better and like you.but it sounds like she does like you to me. :]
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ?
my boyfriend lost someone close to him...and i wanna cheer him up...and he wants me to sing him a song..any suggestions for a good song to sing him????
any love song.fall for you - second hand serenadeeverything - michael bubleeverytime we touch - cascadaso much love - the rocket summerthere's tons more, just think of a song that reminds you of him.something you can sing to him that means something and will never lose that meaning.
any love song.fall for you - second hand serenadeeverything - michael bubleeverytime we touch - cascadaso much love - the rocket summerthere's tons more, just think of a song that reminds you of him.something you can sing to him that means something and will never lose that meaning.
Bf of year and a half fell out of love with me, and broke up with me?
we were in love though. later on in the future if he comes back and wants go date again, should i say yes?
you should say yes.it was just a phase and he's ready to come back to you now.he's realized what a stupid mistake he made by breaking up with you.good luck! :]
you should say yes.it was just a phase and he's ready to come back to you now.he's realized what a stupid mistake he made by breaking up with you.good luck! :]
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